Beyond Death:
How Can I Keep Our Bond Alive?

Keeping the relationship with my dear deceased loved one alive

What this is about

How can I stay connected with the one I’ve lost – and what will sustain me in this journey?
How can I grieve and still keep moving forward?
What rituals and ways of remembering feel good to me?
What do I want to carry forward from him/her?
What do I want to keep as a my ‘treasure’?

“I’m terrified that I’ll forget my wife / dad or that our connection will be lost.”
“I still talk to my deceased sister every day, but everyone says I need to let go. I don’t know how to do that. It doesn’t feel right.”
“I don’t want to let go in the sense of ‘gone.’ I want to find a way for him to still have a place in my life.”

You’ve lost the fear of forgetting your beloved person or “betraying” them – and possibly losing them all over again.
Instead, you nurture a warm, living connection that gives you strength and comfort. In harmony with what you personally believe, whether you’re religious or not.
You can smile at beautiful memories and you know that your deceased loved one will always be a part of you.
Grief means love. You have found a very individual answer that resonates with you on how to continue living your love.

“The goal of grief is not to sever the bond with the deceased, but to transform it.”